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Nourishing the senses during iso…

Well hello, lovely readers, still safe and well and enjoying chilling into this new way of working and living? My idea of doing so is to kick a few work goals at one end of the house during the day, take a brisk walk then settle in with a good book, Netflix marathon or playlist at the other end in the eve. That said, the environment in which I relax needs to soothe my soul, and I’m regularly seeking enhancements for making it just so. But is my home soothing my soul as well as it could be right now? Well almost.

We all know that a house that feels like a home is good for health and wellbeing and creating a haven where we can rest, rejuvenate and reconnect with our selves is particularly relevant during these times. According to Grace, a design researcher, surrounding yourself with the things that you love and bring joy – be it patterns, colours, objects, fragrance or sound – nourishes your senses and improves your overall wellbeing. Elena, an interior designer and sustainability and wellbeing expert, reinforces – ‘our space directly impacts wellbeing, and design choices affect quality of comfort on three levels: cognitive, physical and emotional’. ‘For example, logical thinking and detail-orientated processes require lower ceilings, enclosed spaces and sharp edges, while creativity and inspiration need higher ceilings and curved shapes’.

Well, I might not be able to restructure my ceilings to create a cosy ‘cubby’ for my work, but there are several things I CAN do to enhance my wellbeing. Trawling the latest Breathe, a magazine that focuses on wellbeing, mindfulness, creativity and escaping, I came across a great little selection of ideas, sure to thrill the senses and soothe the soul. As we gently ease into the Autumn months of self-imposed exile, why not try a few, all sustainable and affordable. Let me share them with you:

Refresh bedding

My bedroom is my haven so I’ll be bringing out the feathers – 90% down, light as air yet ever so cosy – and swapping out the crisp white doona cover with something more lux. Why not choose a warm colour such as burnt orange or magenta, and layer with a luxurious throw, add a couple of good reads and a candle or two on the bedside table for good measure?

Adjust home fragrances

Speaking of candles, I love a good scented one and, by simply taking the lid off my gorgeous Jo Malone ‘Peony and Blush’ candle, the one that matches my fragrance, my bedroom quickly fills with sensory delight. If you love candles too, now’s the time to bring in the warming scents like vanilla, cinnamon, toffee and amber. A bunch of richly scented flowers while on the supermarket run is a perfect alternative.

Declutter

How quickly do cupboards and drawers fill huh? I’m planning on organising my linen, kitchen and bathroom cupboards. In this era of living in lifestyle gear, aka gym pants, I’m also a little ashamed of the volume of clothing bursting from my wardrobe. In preparation for post-apocalypse, I’ll be ruthless and pare back to just the items that make me feel fabulous, confident and put together (provided the stuff still fits!). Why not get the whole fam involved by having them do the same in their respective domains?

Swap out the accessories

Like the bedroom, I’ll be bringing the snuggly winter cushions and matching throw out of storage to add a little more texture. Having just purchased lamp globes that can be modified using smart technology, I’ll soften the bulbs to a more sultry tone as well. Luxurious textures, such as faux fur, velvet or wool with thicker weaves, a throw to snuggle into during those movie marathons, a small batch of (battery-powered) flickering candles and a scented real one and there you go.

Create a feature wall

Last year, I painted my office wall a deep rich tone, added a few prints, a pile of books, a plant and a couple of treasured ornaments that evoke fond memories when I view them. Why not choose a wall or small room to repaint and create a cosy atmosphere; colours from the yellow family can add brightness and happiness when opening up dark areas while purple hues can create a luxe calming effect.

Upcycle furniture

Sustainability right? Why not give a piece of tired-looking furniture a new lease on life by painting it a happy colour – if that’s not your thing, it will make for an excellent little task for family members who love to get their hands dirty.

I’m sure you have many more ideas to share, please, please do so, meanwhile, enjoy! Oh, and here’s a link to a recent post discussing Hygge – Let’s Hygge where the Danish do exactly what we are discussing here beautifully!

Stay safe lovely peoples x

The art of escapism during iso…

Hi there lovely peoples, still having fun in self-isolation land? Finally able to sneak a little time for yourself, to relax, regroup and re-energise? Promised I’d round up and share a few books and Netflix/Foxtel marathons into your regroup box and. Thanks to friends and colleagues skilled in the art of escapism, here’s their top 5:  

Book fix

Looking to fuel your apocalyptic fascination? After reading these dystopian novels, you’ll feel surprisingly reassured about life post-pandemic.

Station Eleven (Emily St John Mandel) – centres around Jeevan, one of the few survivors after mysterious flu quickly turns into a full-blown pandemic. This book is beautifully written.

The Hunger Games trilogy (Suzanne Collins) focuses on a futuristic view of survival of the fittest. If you didn’t see the movies, grab these and cheer for Katniss.

Brave New World (Aldus Huxley) – published in 1932 – shares a future where citizens are environmentally engineered into an intelligence-based social hierarchy. Read it in the 70’s – scared the wits out of me!

1984 (George Orwell) published in 1949 – depicts an imagined future, the year 1984, when the world has fallen victim to perpetual war, omnipresent government surveillance, historical negationism and propaganda. The darkest of classics.

The Handmaids Tale (Margaret Atwood) – features a dystopian world that unfolds after a second American civil war, where a totalitarian society subjects fertile women, called ‘Handmaids’ into child-bearing slavery. I’ve been obsessed with the SBS series!

Series fix

Who doesn’t love a good marathon? This is an eclectic bunch with something for everyone, except the kiddies.

Ozarkcentres on a married couple forced to relocate their family to the Ozarks following amoney-laundering scheme gone wrong. Darlene remains in my nightmares!

Mad Men – a classic about a womanising advertising executive, the plot tracks the people in his personal and professional lives, and as the series progresses, you’ll observe the changing moods and social mores of the US throughout the 1960s. Damn, I love you Don, you sexy beast!

Tiger King: Murder, Mayhem and Madness – this “crazy true crime” documentary centres on Joe Exotic, grandiose big cat zoo owner (and country musician), convicted for trying to put a hit on animal rights activist Carole Baskin. Jaysus there’s a few cray-cray’s out there!

The English Game – set in the 1870s, football was once a sport for the wealthy British before a working-class star and his upper-class counterpart come together to change the Game forever. For a non-sporty girl, I loved this series.

Succession – centres on the fictional Roy family, the dysfunctional owners of a global media and hospitality empire who are fighting for control of the company amidst uncertainty about the health of the family’s patriarch. Gripping season finale – can’t wait for the next season! 

I know you’ll have heaps more – why not drop them into the comments box below. Meanwhile, enjoy!

Sheltering from media sensationalism…

Hello, lovely readers – first up, how are you? Safe and well and settling into this new self-isolating way of life? My heart is with you all.

Like most of you, I’m now working from home, currently from the dining table of the lovely Silver-Fox’s apartment on the coast. Surrounded by work-related detritus, headphones in; my work pivoting to 100% virtual delivery within weeks of the COVID-19 alert. Semi-retired, the poor man feels the need to vacate his own home to give me video conferencing privacy. This is the new norm. Similar stories the world over as we settle into partner, children, pet co-oping.

Until recently, I had been observing how humanity went about managing the physical, mental and emotional elements of social isolation with relative dispassion. No kids or pets to consider, comfortable with my own company, healthy, cared for, life looking easy compared to so many out there battling the ramifications of the pandemic. Then last Sunday I awoke in a miserable ‘we’re all going to hell in a basket’ mood, no doubt thanks to an overdose of media sensationalism. Fuelled with a mental bitch slap, a cuppa tea, and a compassionate conversation with the Fox, it was then that we made a pact – to focus only on the positive. Here’s where I started:

Finding calm in an ocean of uncertainty…

That view of the Gold Coast skyline from my work station. – ocean to the left, a canal below and Harbour Town, the Dublin Docks Pub and Dan Murphys in the foreground. The once packed car-parks now empty, except for Dan’s. Dan’s still making a roaring, albeit socially distanced, trade. God bless Dan!

The new commute – bathroom, kitchen, work station. – the rush hour replaced with a leisurely breakfast, work-suitable tops over leisure-wear bottoms, and bottomless cups of tea.

Seeing the faces of the entire national team on video conferences. The intimacy of working with colleagues in their personal spaces, meeting their pets, children, partners, parents, learning of their favourite tipples during virtual Friday happy hour drinkies. More connected than ever, despite the real world ‘disconnect’.

Gaining a deeper understanding of my team’s personalities outside the work-place environment. The socialite, grappling with solo living and an anxious dog. The single dad, coaching his sensitive teens on the differences between fact and sensationalist reporting. A husband in lock-down in another country, another in another state with borders closed. A young mum, building a work routine around two little people demanding 24/7 parental attention.

Long evening walks on the wide semi-empty beaches while savoring deep conversations, gulping the crisp ocean scented air, attuned to the cry of the seagulls, the feel of sand between toes, warm ocean ripples tickling the ankles.

Perfecting the putt on the St Andrews Golf Course – aka the mini Putt-Putt assembled along the lounge floor. The 19th hole bar, aka the fridge beer offer. Assembling the Wii – released from hibernation, dusted off and ready to provide some old fashion exercise and even more amusement.

Actively seeking out good news stories, kind words, good deeds – humanity at it’s best. Marveling at the Venetian canals, now so translucent, you can see fish thanks to the cessation of water traffic. The air clear above China. The social media shared positive images, good news stories, hints, and tips for home-schooling kids. The Mum teaching her grade two kid the grade four curriculum, the result of an accidental download. Folk having virtual parties, work teams showing up in crazy outfits.

Not to mention, a kindle loaded with books, iPhone with calming, meditational apps and Spotify sound-tracks, a fridge full of healthy food, oh! and enough loo-rolls to last another two weeks. As well, a considerable interest in what our world might look like post-pandemic.

Stay tuned for the next blog which will feature a round-up of people’s book, movie, Netflix marathon recommendations, apps and everything calming I can think of.
Meanwhile, drop a line in the comments box to share your coping ideas.
Stay safe lovely people. x

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