networking

Networking? You’ve got this!

Hi, there lovely people, does the word ‘networking’ strike fear in your heart? If yes, well, you’re not alone. Let me tell you about my delightful client, Norm. Sweet and shy, a man of the monosyllable, a man who, at the word ‘networking’, suddenly developed an extraordinary fascination with the exit door. The conversation went thus:

Norm:Not comfortable talking to strangers, don’t even talk to my wife, don’t know any people, don’t like to invade other people’s privacy.’ 

Jane: Norm, you’re not alone; the concept of networking strikes fear in many a heart. Can I give you a little reassurance, though? None are entirely accurate so let’s address those worries ok? And when I’m finished, you’ll be saying, ‘Networking? I’ve got this!’

Norm: Ermmm...(not sure he actually heard me – something to do with those glazed eyes)

I’m not comfortable talking to strangers…

Networking isn’t about talking to strangers; that’s cold calling. Networking is simply talking to your friends and the friends you’ve not yet met. Having a chat, getting and giving advice, sharing information, and being introduced to other people. Still sceptical?

I don’t know many people…

Just say you’ve moved to a brand new town. Your new neighbour leans over the fence to welcome you. An hour later, you’ve learned the name of the best hairdresser, doctor, dentist, the fastest way to the beach, closest supermarket, and the worrying traits of the dog over the road. You’ve made a friend, and you’ve secured a raft of helpful info thanks to asking a couple of questions. That was informal networking.

I’m too shy…

Are you comfy chatting to fellow work colleagues and clients? What about family members, that bloke beside you yelling ‘carn tigers!’ at the footy, the guys busting beers by the BBQ, the girls supping champers in the kitchen, the fellow school drop-off Mums and Dads? All beautiful fonts of knowledge. And these people know other people. Considering the six degrees of separation concept, I call our city 1.5 degrees!

The folk I know can’t help me…

Would it surprise you that up to 85% of jobs are found through networking, according to research by PayScale? An example…

I urgently needed to employ six new team members. The time taken to advertise, cull applications, phone screen, conduct background research, interview and finally, make a job offer was not an option. Instead, I reached out to my LinkedIn network, fellow team members and friends and, within three weeks, had my new additions on-boarded. Each came highly recommended, reinforcing that it’s all about the ‘people who know you, know what you do and can speak well of both.’

I don’t like to invade other people’s privacy…

I’ve found that most people want to help you; they were once in your shoes, and they remember who helped them when they needed advice and guidance. From finding a new job to moving ahead in our existing, networking should play a massive part in our career paths.

I don’t know how to network…

It’s simple: find a good friend, pick up the phone, organise a catch-up, and have a coffee or a beer after work – informal networking right there.

For those in the job market, reassure your friend that you don’t expect them to know of a job for you, merely that you’d like to benefit from their advice and guidance. Focus your conversation on getting the advice and information you need (don’t forget to reciprocate) and ask for referrals, ‘who else would you recommend I chat to?’ Afterwards, send a thank you note and an invitation to connect on LinkedIn so that you both stay on each other’s radar and then keep them in the loop as you progress.

Spending a little time putting yourself out there through networking can help you gain more visibility, particularly with those who have decision-making capacity so go for it. Back to Norm…

Norm: I suppose I could start with my friend Martin and may test out my commercial with him? 

Jane: Great idea, Norm! And you might even want to ask him if he knows anyone you should be talking to in the companies you’re targeting?

Norm: Steady on, Jane!

Jane: Have fun building those new friendships, Norm. Oh, and did you know that you’re building social capital when networking, which increases your emotional IQ. And this is often listed as the No. 1 most valuable career skill.

 Three weeks later…

Norm: (excited phone call): Jane! I just received a job offer! My meeting with Martin really relaxed me, he introduced me to someone else, and it went from there. Thanks so much for convincing me to give it a go.  

Jane: (thought bubble – Norm, that’s the most words you’ve ever shared) This is brilliant news, Norm, congratulations! Let’s go celebrate over a (network) coffee!

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What’s the gos on cover letters?

Hi, there lovely readers! An avid reader who confessed to enjoying the blog’s job-related hints recently asked ‘Does anyone bother to read cover letters these days? You’ve not addressed them in your career management and job search posts, girl?’ Well now I have, read on!

As a career consultant always researching global best practice, I’ve identified that the biggest mistake many job hunters can make is to skip a cover letter when sending off a resume in response to an application. Cover letters can be influential, and a well-written one can grab an interview just on its own merit.

So why aren’t people writing cover letters? Some believe that companies don’t care about them or that, since they’re applying online, they’ll only need a resume. Interestingly some say they read only the cover letter while others go straight for the resume, and still more say they spend more time reviewing resumes and applications that carry a cover letter than ones than don’t. Well then, pays to write that goddamned cover letter don’t you think? Let’s look at what NOT to do first:

What NOT to do:

  • Don’t send a generic letter – it doesn’t work. In fact, it often turns the employer off for it tells them you didn’t make any effort to tailor your message specifically to the needs of the job, so why did you bother sending one? Oh! And given employers are rating your communication skills when they read your letter, if it is feeble, it diminishes your candidacy in their eyes.
  • Don’t lose them with your first sentence. Your first line either grabs the reader’s attention or loses it, so let’s avoid beginning with the overused standard – I’m applying for the … job I saw online.’ Boring. Another overused starting line is telling the company you think they are great and how much you want to work for them. Although this fact can be stated in the letter later – it’s too weak to open it. What’ more, it doesn’t help your prospective employer understand how you’ll contribute to their success with the actual skills they seek.

What TO do:

The opening:

A strong opening should immediately focus on filling the employer’s needs. The body of your letter should then serve as reinforcement. Try this:

1) Analyse the job — both the noted and assumed expectations — and determine the most critical skills the employer is seeking.

2) Immediately address how you will meet the employer’s needs by using that opening sentence to emphasise the major selling points and skills that you would bring to the job. One that offers actions and results – the winning formula that will have them taking notice. Look at the difference here:

 ‘I’m applying to the job opening I found on Seek.’ 

VERSUS

‘Ten years in senior management with proven expertise in international finance for a Fortune 100 company…’

‘Strong leadership in healthcare administration having improved customer service while reducing costs by 12%….’

These openers are eye-catching, designed to get the employer to see what you can do by addressing their needs right upfront. As the first paragraph is what they will read, it needs to have your strongest selling points in it.

The Body: 

Now you’ll want to demonstrate proof that you can perform the duties desired. To develop this ‘proof,’ outline the crucial points that the employer wants by underlining the most critical items from the job advertisement. 

Hint – Use your network to gather any inside information on what’s most important to that employer for that job. Many job openings are vaguely written or ask for too many skills when the employer only cares about a few. Networking can help you learn about what points to stress. 

And another hint (we’re on a roll here!) Tailor your resume content to the specifics you’ve highlighted in the job ad first. If you’ve included quantified achievements as they relate to the requirements you have (a) met the needs of the ‘I only read the resume’ crew and (b) already identified what you offer for summarising in the cover letter. Handy huh?  

Now, before you begin writing, ask yourself ‘What is it that they need me to do in this job to do it well?’ Then consider what you have done in your previous roles. It is this experience you want to emphasise.

The next step is to ask yourself: What were the RESULTS of my efforts on previous jobs, projects, or tasks that I’ve undertaken? The key to composing your letter lies in addressing the duties and skills needed by referencing your abilities to perform them, along with quantifiable results from your past efforts as proof that you CAN do the job. 

One more hint – using the criticals you highlighted in the job ad as headlines in your cover letter will help the reader connect your examples with the job’s requirements and make the content easier to navigate. Doing so will also help your application make it through the scan bots looking to find a 70%+ strike rate of keywords (see – that tailored resume came in handy, didn’t it?)

With the criticals addressed, you may have other ‘value add’ experiences or skills that further demonstrate the expertise they seek. E.g. living abroad for two years = international exposure or speaking more than one language = ability to communicate with a broader audience.

Finally, keep your letter concise. Keep the body of the message short, not more than one page. Conclude with the power phrase:  I would like to discuss in greater detail the valuable contributions I’d bring to your organisation.’ Ah! You’re a productive team player and focused on being an asset to the employer – nice!

In summary: Your cover letter must develop enough interest to get the employer to want to turn the page, look at your resume and say, ‘This one’s worth calling in for an interview, let’s do it!’

Good luck and remember –  you’ve got this!

 

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Killing small talk…

Unseasonably warm isn’t it?  

Hello, lovelies. Christmas. I personally love it. Particularly the ‘we simply must have drinks before Christmas darling!’ spike in my calendar of events. But not everyone enjoys the socialising aspect of the festive season. “All that bloody small talk, I never know what to say, particularly at the office Xmas party where I feel obliged to talk to people I don’t even know!” cried one particularly distressed friend. I said gurl, I have just the thing for you and sent a link to this post, originally published in 2018.  Her response? “Babe you may have just saved my liver for I can now substitute gulping confidence-building alcohol with great conversation!” (love that reader!!) For all of you suffering the same fate – here’s a repost:

Ever found yourself plunged into the realm of small talk and struggling to come up with something more interesting than the weather? Stared at a dating site pondering witty/clever/  sophisticated questions to ask an interested party?  A co-worker in an elevator, an acquaintance at an industry event, a complete stranger at a networking event? It happens to us all. ‘Yes, it is unseasonably warm for this time of year isn’t it?’ Boring.

Let’s kill the small talk!

If you’ve found yourself talking about topics you have no interest in or have already discussed one too many times—just for something to say, check out this great little article by Aja Frost (making small talk so much easier). After reviewing, I started throwing a few out there and along the way, managed to learn fabulous things about people that I’d never have picked up in ‘normal’ conversation. No more awkward silences or boring small talk folks! Here’s a starter kit of unexpected, thought-provoking questions that will evoke more than a mere yes or no response. And there’s something for everyone!

For the culture cravers…

  1. Are you reading any good books right now? How about shows? What would you recommend?
  2. Do you have any podcast suggestions for my commute?
  3. What’s the last movie that made you cry? Or laugh aloud?
  4. Whom would you want to be your Amazing Race partner?
  5. If they made a movie about you, which movie star would you choose to play you? Your family members? Why?

 For the foodies…

  1. If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  2. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?
  3. What’s your go-to comfort food? Or the food your Mum always made for you on your birthday?
  4. Does your family have any “secret” or famous recipes?
  5. What’s your favourite restaurant that other people might not know about

For late-night reveries…

  1. If you were in charge of picking the eighth wonder of the world, what would you choose?
  2. What do you wish you had placed in a time capsule 15 years ago?
  3. What’s the strangest compliment you’ve ever received?
  4. Have you ever thought of a cool invention or company, only to discover someone had already invented or started it?
  5. What would be your ideal superpower?
  6. BONUS Q: If you could invite 5 people, dead or alive, to your dinner party, who would you choose? Why?

For the work buddies…

  1. If you weren’t working here, what would you probably be doing right now?
  2. What’s the craziest thing a boss has ever asked you to do?
  3. Would you rather work four 10-hour days or five eight-hour days?
  4. If you were guaranteed to be successful, what job would you want?
  5. What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received? How about the worst?

 For the travel-hungry…

  1. If you could fly anywhere for free, where would you go?
  2. What’s the coolest road trip you’ve ever been on?
  3. Where’s the last place you traveled? What did you do there?
  4. If you could take a workcation or sabbatical, where would you go and what would you do?
  5. What’s your favourite thing to do around here on the weekends?

For the daters…

  1. What did you think you were going to be when you grew up?
  2. Do you have any hidden talents or surprising hobbies?
  3. What was the must-have accessory or item when you were growing up?
  4. What’s the most unbelievable thing that’s ever happened to you?
  5. What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

Bet just asking one or two of these questions and you’ll be engaged for hours. Best order another wine (sorry liver)!

What questions do you like to ask to jumpstart a cool discussion?

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